HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

I've gone through every step of the disassembly for removing the transmission...now I can't get it to separate from the engine! I have the 9 main joining bolts out, and every imaginable other screw, bolt, connector etc. removed...I don't care what I do, I can't move the transmission 1mm to the left and off those mounting dowels. What gives? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP!!!!!