Originally Posted by Discosmurf
I'm not trying to make a mockery of your situation just trying to lighten your mood a little.
If you're that worried about fitting in, one day why not make an attempt to make plans with them? Say you were thinking about going to such and such place and ask them to join you. Or make friends with less gossipy folk.
well, it is a small org, in this building, there are 8 of us, and only 4 of us are at the same "level" the rest are supervisory or executive.... im not one to seek sympathy to get involved with something like "hey sure sounds like you guys have fun, i might like to join in sometime" and i feel like if they
wanted me to come, or hang out at any other time, they would have invited me along by now. so i just deal with it, i just wanted to see if anybody else would be uncomfortable in this situation.
im trying to find another gig but in this job market, your options are few and far between, right now awaiting a call-back from a local org that i applied at to be the director of marketing and community relations.... here's hoping....