No, that's what girls say about guys.

You have to leave the ball in her court, but only up to a point.

That means you don't call her during the week about stupid foo foo girly shit and "just to talk," so she doesn't get used to you calling her. If you do that then when it comes time to go out she will be expecting a call from you. You've called her before, so she's gonna expect that even though you said to call you, that you will end up calling.

You let her be the one to call you about the stupid foo foo girly shit. Then she doesn't get all used to you calling and making yourself available to her without her doing something first. One of those times she calls you to talk about foo foo girly shit, you mention going out. Then when it comes time to actually go out, she's not expecting a call but the subject has already been broached. You can then call her and say, "okay where we goin?" and not worry about having called one too many times. Because it's the only time you've called her.

The only time you should call her is when it involves arranging the logistics of you going out. But you're going to have to implement this plan with some other chick, because this one has already been tainted.