thanks bluetwo for the love and great response....

there is a pic attached to one of these messages that has my car in the background.

The complex thing is: yes i want to be a guy magnet BUT i have to be in a car I like, rather guys like it or not. I don't want to be one of the guys, you know? All that said, i do like the prelude, integra is cool, not really my style. maybe i could find one from somebody who has already done a lot of stuff to it, that way, i won't have to decide myself!