Update:: they recovered my car in the new haven area yesterday. only my car is missing:
cf hood
passenger fender and jdm corner light
intake
header
spoon reservior covers
sparkplug wires
all my strut bars
rear lower tie bar
my whole exhaust system
alpine head unit
center counsole and arm rest
jdm coin pocket
rear lights
basically most of the stuff that was in the car that was my property
and my digi cam so i cant take any pics of the poor thing
oh and the ignition is fawked up along with the climate control and the part of the dash

my father went to honda and priced out all of the stuff that we would need to replace and it came out to around 5600, more than the car is worth. so i just want to total it and maybe get some cash and get a new car.