okay like this

you've done said activity.

if you dont opt out of it, you will end up doing it again at some point in your life.

so opt out of it and never have to partake.

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for example, i have moved more times than i care to think about. i hate it.

if i had the option, i would never move again.

but since i dont have that option, at least nothing is definite, im going to have to move again some day.

does that make more sense?