i'm confused but yeah ok to the original post...if she's cute just talk to her. you need to become a guy with some balls because well you might end up like the typical trekkie nerd who ends up alone in his parent's basement writing code and articles for internet sites all your life.

it goes like this
axeboyseal: hello how are you doing today?
girl: blah blah blah blah
axeboyseal: oh really that's nice. blah blah blah <insert small talk>
girl: blah blah blah
axeboyseal: <insert balls> wanna go out for coffee sometime? blah blah blah
girl: ok blah blah blah blah

that's how it goes for me normally and i'm the biggest nerd/dork ever.