Originally Posted by lil_1_2002
Hang in there homie. Make sure you watch your children. Remember i told you to talk to them? It was ironic because the next day in my psychology class we were talkin about post-traumatic stress and they mentioned car accidents in children. And like i thought talking to them really helps them get through it and prevents any further development of a stress disorder. So when you think they are ready get them talkin about what happen so they arent afraid to express themselves. Hit me up if u need anything and i'll stay in touch.
Thanks Carlos. Yeah man, I didn't doubt your advice at all since you have felt the pain of losing a loved one also. My daughter seems to find it easier to talk about than my son, although she doesn't seem to be as open to her mom as she is to me. My son hasn't really been wanting to say much about it to me, nor his mom, hopefully he comes around soon and doesn't just let it fester inside.
hondadriver22Im sure your uncle is content with the splitsecond decision you made. Im glad, (and Im sure he is too) that you and your kids are ok. My condolences to you and your family.
I hope he knows that I did the best I could under the circumstances, I tried my hardest to avoid that collision. I am very grateful having the lives of my kids and I spared, I just wish my uncle was still here to be grateful just the same.
Macster33-I got ur message bro and I appreciate it. I'll hit you up sometime soon.
Nor CalDC4-it's hard man, it really is. I mean, I am so very grateful that my kids were alright but the pain and grief of losing my uncle overtakes that almost to the point to where I feel like I am ungrateful.
Like everyone else, I hope that guy gets punished to the fullest extent of law for the pain he has cause my family and I. And rest assured, we will purse the punishment in all avenues available to us to ensure just that.