from my experience, fraternity/sorority people are the worst when they were nerds/losers in high school and join an organization solely for the purpose of socializing. they become an over-extrovert and become the 'stereotypical' greek.

you lose sight of who you are and become ungenuine and labeled according to your letters. you lose personality and individuality too, ESPECIALLY to those who knew you before. that is *if* you were anti-social before and make a drastic change, after you join.

it gets real weird, esp among old friends and new. :dunno: i speak based on observations.

so, figure yourself out before joining is my motto. it looks real stupid if ur a really shy person, then come out of your shell after u join. people will look at you in a different light