all parts are rated best to worse...
shocks: koni yellows($500) > KYB AGX($300) > Tokico Blues($200-people pay you for them)
springs will depend on if you want performance or daily comfort. generally H&R/neuspeed springs are good for performance while eibach prokits are good for a daily driver with some performance.
wheels.. anything you like.. as long as its not over 18 inches... 17s are preferable for me.