Originally Posted by v8guy
Well, she has it there, that has to mean something.
I don't know Jess, and I don't want to accuse her of anything or make snap judgements about her, but what do you expect people to think when they check out her sig. That sig screams "oooh, look at me, I'm so hot". Now, I'd rather drop this now before I get anyone upset, but ladies, please think about the signals you give off when you wonder why people treat you the way they do. Yes, a LOT of guys are pigs/assholes/whatever. Especially the drunk losers you meet in bars/clubs. Yes, girls have to put up with a lot of shit from these losers, and it makes life harder for guys like me. When I go up to a girl in a bar/club, quite often I get this cold wall thrown in my face like, "oh, so now you wanna **** me". So now I have to somehow convince this girl that I am not like the last 10,000 losers that walked up to her and tried to talk to her. I really hate this, because when I walk up to a girl, I have no idea if I want to hook up with her, what I would like to do is talk to her a little and see if anything clicks. Now in my travels, i have run across scores of women who go out wearing next to nothing with their tits falling out of their top that do nothing but complain about every guy the see. "OMG that guy was totally staring at my tits, did you see that?, what a pig, men are such assholes". Meanwhile I'm standing there like "bitch what do you expect, your see-thu top barely covers your wonderbra." Of course, I'd never open my mouth and say such a thing, but these are the thoughts that go through my mind. Now, mind you, I am not accusing ANYONE of ANYTHING, but ladies, please consider the types of signals you give off when you recieve unwanted attention. 90% or more of communication is nonverbal.
Now I really gotta go, lots of work to do
its cool man, i just keep forgetting its there, and every time i do remember, it makes me laugh so i keep it there. honestly, in person i'm nothing like those girls you speak of, although i do know what you are talking about. when you dress like a slut, you're going to get comments. but on the weekend in question (wait, make that every weekend, lol, and the weekedays) i was wearing a sweatshirt with a big tee over it, and jeans. no makeup, hair pulled back all crappy. thats why its so confusing. i'm too lazy to actually glam up or anything. ask lawrence, i dress like a scumbag, lol. i know when i dress provocatively i will get attention (almost every girl does, in some way or another). right now i'm going through a time in my life when i don't want any at all, and i do dress appropriately. i try to be nice to everyone, but when i feel like someone is taking that the wrong way, i shut it off quickly, and make it obvious. but the people i dealt with this weekend weren't going to understand that unless i screamed in their face "**** OFF!" hence my frustration, since thats not in my nature. although if it happens again, i will
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