see thats the thing man, after i told her i liked her, i was much more relaxed around her. i mean, ultimatly i would have wanted it to have worked out so that we were an "item", but its not to happen i guess. agian as i mentioned, as long as shes happy, thats fine with me. the thing is that she and her bf have been going out for some time so, i have an intuition that it won't really happen any time soon.