Originally Posted by RB
EXACTLY. Being friends is cool, but don't try it right after you break up. You need space. I haven't seen or spoken to my ex in almost 3 months, and its done me a world of good.
Seriously you need to move on and worry about your life instead of driving 4 hours one way to hang out w/ your ex who has obviously moved on.
Its not that i haven't moved on either... I am not holding out for her or anything like that... I have made acouple new friends that are becoming very close to me, both male and female, its not like I want to get back together with her. I tried my best to become a good friend to her, because I had so much fun with her (we weren't together for so long for nothing)... but again this obviously didn't work.