this "he" is indeed a she, and I wanted to know different shiet thats why I kept interupting and asking her things!! and I wasn't flaming her or making her feel bad, this thread was created because she sparked interest in me towards the Islamic religeon. The way that she described this "alah" makes alot more sense to me than "god" as a super human who empregnates a virgin withough touching her!! I consider myself semi-catholic because I was raised that way, but ive always been interested in other points of view thats why I havent established myself in a certain religeon.