i figured it out, since I no longer have my stock wires I had to do some swapin with my 4dr (damn i love havin swapable parts). I put all wires from my stock 4dr on and started putting the new wires on 1 at a time and started the car after each swap. #1, idled fine and no probs, #2 idled fine no probs, #3 idled fine with no prob, #4 wire, problem came back, I tripple checked the connection and it seemed fine. Guess in the end it was just a defective #4 wire. Time to get hold of the seller....Oh and I didnt go cheap on these wires so now Im mad that I spent alot and still got crap.