To me its more of myself walking on the edge of a blade. I like the OEM look so people think its stock. However i do like how some kits look on the car.

My car right now is OEM. I have 2 bodykit bumpers sitting in my garage. I cant decide which one i want yet. Or even if i want the aftermarket one or just get another OEM bumper with a CTR lip *I got in an accident BTW so the bumper is messed up*

basically though i think it all depends on the persons style and taste. Some like the OEM look because it keeps the car looking clean and some like the aftermarket look because it makes the car stand out from the crowd. and hell some like myself mix and match.