Haha, you stole my pic.

Wheels are so personal...everyone has a different opinion most of the time. Maybe narrow it down to 3-4 you are considering and post those pics and see what people like. I'd try and stick with something with a clean design that isn't too radical and won't look dated in a couple years.

17 or 18...if you want the "larger wheel" look, go with 18s. But if you are really concerned with ride quality, off the line acceleration, cost, etc then sure, 17s would be a good choice. It's really up to you.

Choyboi: The kit is Wings West W type, and sorry it won't fit on a coupe, but WW and Honda both make one for the 98-00 coupes. If you have 01-02 it will require swapping bumpers with a 98-00 one.