Yeah.. well, the same thing is going on with my friend right now.. except, he was the one who went the other way.. they both started messing around at some chatroom.. got addicted... next thing you know, their marriage of 5 years, 8 years of total relationship looks like it's going down the drain.. he moved out of the house to think.. right at this very moment, he's in toronto (they're from portland) to meet up with the girl he met online.. he's been there for 5 days.. called yesterday to say how sorry he was and that he misses her yaddi yaddi yadda.. he said he didn't see her but who knows.. guys would do anything to get some ass.. they'd **** anything that has two legs..

sorry just need to vent out.. he's the type of guy who looks like he wouldn't do anything stupid..i would think if ever this happens, realistically, it would her.. she's a bad girl (experienced, compared to him).. but yah..

sorry that it's happening to you man! it's not meant to be.. no one deserves to get treated like shit.. for her to break her vows for the sake of lust is incompetent to give respect not only to you but also to herself.. pick yourself up and don't think that you've been stained, tainted or broken.. cuz you only are if you done it yourself and to yourself.. karma is a bitch.. what goes around comes around.. don't wait for a silly bitch to come beggin on her knees..