i think most of what you are noticing is all in your head.
i ran my aftermarket ericks tb at .45xxx voltage idle was the same.
i had bogging during acceleration cause of a sticking tb.
you also want there to be 10-12 mm in slack on the tb cable.
make sure you tb cable isn't on too tight.
mine bogging issues where because of the tb, and once they were fixed. i had GREAT throttle response.
the voltage reading as far as i know tell the ecu how muc the throttlbody is open.
that and the map sensor tell the ecu how much air is coming in at what throttle position.