Wow.. tough call. I would lean towards your relationship with your daughter. Not just cause I'm a woman and supposadly have "motherly instincts". ( MIA, last I checked) But... as a child of divorce. My parents split when I was three... I never had much of a relationship with my father.. He moved back to Florida when I was 5. I saw him maybe 4 or 5 times since then. (if that) When I was hitting my teen years.. I had a lot of anger and bitterness towards him due, I guess, towards what I thought was a lack of him caring.
:dunno: though... if you fall financially, it may also hinder a relationship with your daughter. :dunno: