It has not done it again. Went by the parts store and replaced the fuse from were the dealership told the wife to stick the key into the power outlet/cigerette lighter.....I still don't understand that one. Our shadetree told her to keep turning the wheel as she tried to get it out og gear and I think that is what fixed the problem. I have read some about the trash getting into the shifter and sensor, but the trash should not be a problem. If anyone has anything else to add please be sure to post it.
I also do not know were the emergency release is. Does anyone else on a 99 Accord LX ?