Honestly, you shouldn't turn to random people on the internet for help with this kind of shit.

Sure, "sometimes a stranger is most helpful" but that's not the case. We don't know what the deal really is from reading a paragraph or two. We don't know you, we don't know this chick. We've only even heard what you have to say about the situation.

It's a recipe for you hearing what you for the most part want to be told.