lol, hey man sounds like you got a nice life going for you alot of people would love to have 35k saved up haha.

i would go for the car you like not the one that your girl likes man later down the road if you only like it 40% you will probly not be very happy with it later. but if it is something you really want and you will be happy with it a few years down the road go for it.

I would buy a cheaper car and put that 35k into it, but thats me