I've used AEM as well as Axxis Ultimates, CObalt GT SPorts, Hawk HPS, Hawk HP+, Ferodo DS3000 and Hawk Blues.
If you want awesome stopping power you are not going to find it without tradeoffs. The best pads will dust but will stop better than those that were designed to dust less.
If you want the best braking power Cobalt GT SPorts or Hawk HP+ are you best bets. If you want a pad very similar to OEM and little dust go with the AEMs.