Dude serious..nightshade is right IMO, this seems awfully like your begging for pity and for people to feel sorry for you. Remember you people are "equal" and want rightly so to be treated that way. In this manner this is nothing more than a bickering on your part. You're being hypocritical.

This is in the same nature as though Rick would have asked you why you believe in a certain religion, or why you aren't circumsised, or why you feel a certain way about some other topic. Its personal and may not be his particualr business, but has the right to inquire. You wouldn't react to other such questions like you are to this.

Zip it.