Originally Posted by DelSolGirl
:werd: don't immediately latch on to some other chick. it won't solve your problems. truly moving on can't happen until you and your ex are out of the same house, imo.
you mentioned getting a guitar -- a good step. it would also help to get a hobby that gets you out of the house for long periods of time. it'll take your mind off of your ex but also keep you from seeing/hearing her retarded, sluttish behavior.
yeah, I don't want a rebound chick. And I have come to the realization that I wont be fully over her until I get away from her for good.
Originally Posted by Frankie Dirtbag
ask her nicely to go **** at his place instead of yours, dont talk to her anymore or at least keep it to a minimum (no small talk, just business. avoid her at all cost), go to the gym and vent your frustrations/anger/sadness there. get on the treadmill/park/track and run, physically and mentally. leave all the sadness behind, like forrest gump did. it worked for me. now im toned, healthy and over her.
She mostly hangs out at his place, but we live in townhouses and we share a wall, so its not like she's OUT of my mind when she's over there...this goes back to the original reason for the theard. I know she's over there, with him, so I can't stop myself from wondering what she's doing.
Going to the gym is a great idea, but one of the side effects from my depression has been a severe loss of appetite. In the past 1.5 months, I've lost ~25 lbs. But, as a result, I have a very low energy level because I'm not getting enough food. I'm taking a multi vitamin every day so that I can get the bare essentials in me, but other than that I eat maybe half of ONE meal a day.
