My apartment gets owned all the time by my SOBER roommate. He's the biggest slob on the face of the earth. Normally I wouldn't mind, but our apartment is BEAUTIFUL........and I hate seeing it in such bad shape....so I always snap and clean up after him. If I try to nicely say "walker, can you do your dishes", or "walker, can you run the trash out on your way out".....he gets defensive....and then hes like "dude, dont say it like an asshole, god damn"...... *sigh*....only 2 more months until I close on my own house down the street.