It's true you must have a relationship with God. But the only way to do that is to accept Jesus Christ as your savior...going to church doesnt save you...talking to a pastor doesnt save you. The only thing that saves you is the acceptance of Jesus Christ and confession of your sin. Go back and read the verses again, Christ said "No one comes to the father but by me"(You cant talk to God if you arent saved, God cannot talk to sinners, Christ is our intercessor, basically relaying our thoughts and prayers to God). Anyway how can you know of God if you dont read his word? He gave it to us for a reason, to learn of him.