I hate that too. But the thing is, most of those girls (with the midriff shirts and whatnot) actually have a pretty good body, they just try and cram into pants that don't fit them and thus the belly plops out over the belt :ugh: Just wear pants that fit you, sheesh...

i think one of the most important aspects of a womans body is the waist measurement:ass measurement ratio. I'm not saying she's gotta have a small waist but its gotta be proportional to the ass. You can be a big woman and still maintain this, and your still hot as hell, but once the waist gets bigger than the ass, youre in trouble.

and delslogirl.... i think theres plenty of pressure for a guy to try and look good. I know i don't really feel comfortable swimming or whatever unless I'm in good shape. I've been told to "get back into shape" (kinda like the "hey, why don't you lose some wieght" thing for girls) at least a couple times :dunno: