ok good news

my apex vafc wasnt wired correctly. they were 1 wire off... so i did it right and bam just like that the throttle voltage was working great.

so.. now i can up the fuel during WOT and higher rpms until i get green :awais:

thanks for the input.. too bad i've been beating it for a few days now.. hopefully no major damage.. ill be much more careful until i get rock solid green.