IMO get what you like wether it be altezzas, jag style, oem... etc. You are the one that is going to be driving your car and enjoying it. Dont be concerned about what others think unless you want to be a sheep like the rest.
Well IMO its better having people staring at your car thinking "that looks pretty cool" than thinking "WTF is he thinking?" (hence, every altezza thats not on an IS300)
Well I think a brand new cleared oem looks the best, but if you HAVE to get an aftermarket, a jag style is not tOO bad.