Have the father get a quote for a new stator or planetary gearset or solenoid for an AT, then get a quote for a new clutch. Given that your gf is experienced in driving an MT, stick with what works, I say.
Honda clutches, when treated fairly, are phenomenally rugged. The DC4's clutch lasted 97,000 miles.
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