Plugs looking brand new don't necessarily mean it's running lean. It could mean the heat range is too cold for those plugs, you haven't run them enough to get a good reading, or even that you just have a very clean running engine.
And again, headers glow, not a big deal, I suspect that you have no problems at all.
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