Originally posted by 99civic_love
this is what i woke up to this morning:
flyrskikazz: wow i thought you would have grown up a lil bit, its not like we were ever officially going out and yes i did care about you and i knew i ****ed up but no one is perfect
i can't believe he has the nerve to pull this shit. he used to say "i call you my girlfriend, blah blah blah" to make me think we were going out, but we actually weren't, so he could hook up with other girls and feel OK about it. there's more, but i don't need to bore you guys.
This guy is obviously a dick...primarily b/c he cheated on such a cool ass girl who is absolutely gorgeous IMO...Secondly, this guy probably knows exactly what buttons to push to make you steam...In Communication, throughout words, people can either empower or belittle you. He obviously is trying to belittle you by saying things that he knows will upset him. Don't even give him the chance to do that. Next time (if there is a next time) he trys to talk to you, dont let him see any anger at all. Conversate with him, talk to him normally... let him see how happy you are without his cheating ass...If he's a normal guy, this will get to him/piss him off more than if you were angry at him...Hope this helps EDIT: JESS
sorry, i got confuzzled there for a minute:doh: