some of you guys know the situation with my ex...well he came by my house last night...i was out getting some dinner...he told my step dad for me to please call him...so i did (curosity killed the cat) he wanted me to come over...i told him i might but wasnt sure...well i went over about an hour and a half later...we talked some...the pleasantries...then went for a drive for a while and talked more...it was like nothing had ever happened and we were back to normal... :wtf: we went and hung out with some of his friends after a while (i had met them prev.) he kept looking at me...then once he started to reach for my hand and backed off...then he took me back to my car and gave me a hug and said see ya later... :wtf: what am i missing???? i am totally confused...