I speak from experience only
S/T Sway bar gives you so muchhh better handling. But bend the pipe is :sad:
if you couldn't get the sway bar, at least a front upper strut. GET he neuspeed because of the way it's mounted > any other strut bars
H22 swap? If you think you can hand at least $3500 off hand and a lot more after that (minor problems and stuff) then go for it. If you do not require to go any faster [aka race] than it already is now, then I do not suggest you put money into it. Since it requires a lot of dedication, effort, work, caring, and $$$$. Ask any other Hybrid members and they'll tell you, it's a lot of work that you have to put in constantly.

Now I do not even want to drive my car around all the time. I often drive my gf's 94 Accord with EXACTLY same mods just w/o the H22 swap + N20 and still able to hit 100+ on occational funs
Paint the car or the eyebrow? Btw, I never dig the eyebrow thingy, but if you ordered, and will put on, then paiting it to match you car's color is a must.
I DO NOT have any hates or against the Euro Clear tail lamp, but that one of yours will look better on darker car.

But do not waste your money buying another set of stock's red and clear just because people said that they hate your tail. I had my S-Type CLEAR for my 94 accord a long time ago, now I grew tired of how it look and so stood out on my black car. But I'm not gona spend any money to buy a stock one back on. I wish that they had the blackhousing when it first came out.

So I'll paint the cover to match my car color, leaving 2 circles for the brake/signal and an upper thin line for the reverse signal - [reverted] R34 look alike
You can save all the money for other mods and maintenance. Such as Intake, header, decent sound system, new set of tires - very costly

, etc