There's a search button here thats pretty useful but I'll answer your Q anyways..

1)Good website on how-to's:http://www.andrews.edu/~johnsonm/how...ckhousing.html

2) There is no hole behind the "accord" or "ex,lx,dx" emblems, but there is behind the "H." Use dental floss or fishing line and slowly pry it underneath untill its loose and take it off, then clean with goo gone.

3) Neuspeed/H&R/Eibach sport/sportline/pro kit with KYB AGX/Tokico struts..