If that's true then that's simply amazing. I've been with my girl for a long (long, long) time and there are things that annoy me but we match on a much larger level. Nobody's perfect and I don't think any two people are perfect for each other, as in, find the other to be perfect and have no arguments ever. If that's the case then you probably don't know the person very well. I would be seriously amazed to see a couple who has been in a long relationship and never argued. But anyway, I'm like whipetony in that I really miss my gf sometimes and sometimes I just want alone time. I don't think that's weird really.