I'd get the manual regardless of engine, Honda doesnt have the best track record when it comes to automatic transmissions. On the power issue, true, the auto does suck a lot of life from the car, but keep in mind that the 7th gen 5-spd automatics are MUCH improved from the 5th gen and older slowmatics. Engine wise, I like Honda 4-cylinders for their superior efficiency, longevity, and reliability. However, the V6 is smoother, quieter, and a lot more powerful and responsive (although the new 2.4 blows the old F22 and F23 out of the water) If I were you, and those were my only two choices, I'd opt for the I-4 EX w/ leather and navi. However, being me, I'd take an EX V6 coupe w/ leather and 6-speed