Originally posted by SmOkIneLf
i know that but i have seen alot of threads over the months of people complaining they can't find a decent girl when they go to a bar or club or something of that sort.
yea, youre right. that is not the place to look. although some people do find relationship material there, most dont. my mom met the men of the majority of her emotional and physical abusive relationships in bars. most started out as friendships and were that way for a few years, then led to more..then turned out to be abusive. such as my father. its sad. but true.