Just wait for all the Ferio experts to come around (18secFerio, asiandood, etc only 2 i thought of off the top of my head) they'll give you some good ideas..
Id say go with a oem or type r lip kit, drop it with H&Rs or coilovers, get some KYB AGX or Koni Yellows, some nice 16 or 17 inch rims, and some gunmetal/black headlights...to start