I'd go with the eibach pro-kit. It isn't very low at all. You will still have some fender gap with them. Other than those you should consider the H&R OE sport. These are not quite as low as the regular H&R sports (that I have). You could also get ground control coilover sleeves.

For the adjustable dampers, I would go with one of the following: KYB AGX's (cheapest), Tokico Illuminas (better, slightly more expensive), or Koni Yellows (best, but most expensive)