Nah man it's totally their fault for not being able to understand that you are what you are and it's got nothing to do with how they raised you nor is there anything they can do to change you. Their actions are up to them. I know it seems like they're reacting to you but if they have problems then they were going to have problems regardless of whether or not those problems seemed to be centered around you. You just happen to be the topic those problems manifest themselves around. Don't think for a second that you caused any of their issues.