I live in NJ, and she lives here, when shes not in school [Notre Dame]......

.........but she wants to break up with my cuz I smoke weed. She knew about it before was were together, and you can't expect someone to change, you accept them for who they are!!


We've been together for 1½ years, and we still haven't had sex, she gives me a million reasons why, but it's just a bunch of bs, shes doesn't care about sex, and thats annoying.

Anyways, my friend [Marc] and I were gonna fly out to Notre Dame for the weekend [this weekned] to hang out, catch the game, have a good time, but she won't let us smoke in the house, or in the apt complex, and if we smoke in the complex she won't let us in her apt.

anywho, she got in the big argument with me and tells me, I either quit or were over, so I mean, I'm not quitting, it doesn't effect it, and if she doesn't love me for me, then she doesn't love me. am I right or am I right? that's what I though.

What do you guys think? and even if we break up tonight, she still wants me to come up this weekend. I told he no, I'll cancel the plane tickets.