i personally think if you are dating someoen you should alteast see a possibility of a future with that purpose...otherwise i see no point in dating ebcause its a waste of time...unless its purely sexual...thats how i see it personally. For the girl i'm talkin to right now i couldnt see myself with her becuase we are 2 very different people...but as i get to know her better...i can sorta see a future there...thats why i have held out in askin her out but i will soon.