u should have purchased paypal insurance.

a confirmation/tracking number is essential so he's basically lying b/c no one can prove if he sent it or not.

paypal only re-emburses up to 180 on a 200 auction max. so you will only get 180 back.

and i dont even know if you won the auction since you didn't meet the reserve.

an finally....never purchase from someone with less than 95% positive feedback and also no less than 25 feedbacks.