Well.. we used to work at the same company. She got the job from her then girlfriend at the time.. who was a friend of mine.. I was seeing someone else.. and over the two years we both worked there.. we were always friends. Then.. me and my ex split.. then.. a year or so later.. she split with her gf.. (Neither one of us worked for the company anymore.. I had been laid off, she had quit) and.. we just started hanging out more.. then... one thing lead to another..