okay personally,..if i was your friend,..i would keep the stockers,..why you ask?,..ill try to break it down for you
1. if you buy those lights,..9 times out of 10 they are not sealed and you will get consendation,.. which means you will have to pop those in the oven and open em up just to seal them up right
2. the color doesnt look all that hot,..i hate it when its really really black
3. since you will most likely have to open those ebay lights up to get them to seal right,...why not save the money,..open up the stockers,..give the dingy headlight covers a little wet sanding with fine grit paper to get the discoloring off and look nice and new,..while its apart,..paint the housing gunmetal to somewhat match the VSM paint on the 96 civic ,..the gunmetal paint will contrast better than the black IMO
4. if you use the stock headlights,..you wont have to worry about fitment and gap issues because they are slightly modified OEM parts