If you going to get anything besides OEM wheels, please drop your car first. 6th gen 4x4s don't look that good. If you want to do it right do the suspension first then get a nice pair of rims. You can get a pair of springs for about $200 and get a slight drop that you won't have to worry about getting new shocks right away. Of course I'd recommend getting true coilovers, I've got Teins and the ride is great. But I'd do suspension before you consider getting rims.

Welcome man.