Well me and the man broke up like over 6months ago, and I've gone out and meet a lotta guys. Well here's where the comment comes in. I go on a date with these guys and after they find out i'm independent they stop talking to me. WHAT's UP!! I even had this guy tell me "you intimidate me." i asked him Y and he answered " your too independent, and i can't offer you anything". WTF, I thought u men like girls that had there chit together? I am i wrong?